The Comeback Course Video Five
Weekly Check In:
One word to describe my week would be: _________________________________
I felt in control or out of control: _________________________________
The feeling I felt most this week was: _________________________________
The feeling I’d like to feel more of is: _________________________________
I found myself using most of my mental focus on: _____________________________
I’m proud of myself for: _________________________________
I’d like to improve: _________________________________
Rate your week on a scale of 1-10: _________________________________
Scale of 1-10: How committed was I to self-care? _________________________________
Perception Reflections:
My view of the world is:
Is this view positive/negative/helpful/unhelpful?
Because of this belief I am most likely to see:
What I’d prefer to see is:
To see this perception of the world, I’d have to believe:
Negative beliefs work: If you can’t believe that the world is a good place if you’ve believed it’s bad, start with a smaller more achievable belief. For example, there’s good in the world or the world can be an alright place. Write the belief you’d like to work towards below:
My view of relationships are (explore romantic, family, friends, etc.):
Is this view positive/negative/helpful/unhelpful? ___________________
Because of this belief I am most likely to see:
What I’d prefer to see is:
To see this perception of relationships, I’d have to believe:
Negative beliefs work: If you can’t believe that relationships work, if you’ve believed they end or you’re bad at them, you’ll have a harder time encountering healthy relationships. Start with a smaller more achievable belief. For example, I believe some relationships can work. I believe a healthy relationship is possible for me.Write the belief you’d like to work towards below:
My view of money/finances are:
Is this view positive/negative/helpful/unhelpful?
Because of this belief I am most likely to see:
What I’d prefer to see is:
To see this perception of the money, I’d have to believe:
Negative beliefs work: If you believe you are always broke or are bad with money, let’s rewire. What is something smaller you can believe in. For example, I am learning to manage my money well. Small amounts of money find me. Write the belief you’d like to work towards below:
My view of myself is (explore personality traits, likeability, productivity):
Is this view positive/negative/helpful/unhelpful?
Because of this belief I am most likely to see:
What I’d prefer to see is: To see this perception of the myself, I’d have to believe:
Negative beliefs work: If you can’t believe that you are fantastic, strong, smart, capable, confident etc. Can you believe you can work towards that? Write the belief you’d like to work towards below:
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My view of health is (explore physical health, mental health, emotional health, etc. ):
Is this view positive/negative/helpful/unhelpful?
Because of this belief I am most likely to see:
What I’d prefer to see is: To see this perception of my health, I’d have to believe:
Negative beliefs work: If you can’t believe that you are healed, healthy, thin, or active. Can you work towards believing every day you feel a little better or are a little more motivated? Write the belief you’d like to work towards below:
My view of success is:
Is this view positive/negative/helpful/unhelpful?
Because of this belief I am most likely to see:
What I’d prefer to see is:
To see this perception of success, I’d have to believe:
Negative beliefs work: If you can’t believe you are successful, can you believe you are working towards it?Gaining more momentum every day? Write the belief you’d like to work towards below:
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My view of connection with a higher power/the universe/god is:
Is this view positive/negative/helpful/unhelpful?
Because of this belief I am most likely to see:
What I’d prefer to see is:
To see this perception of a higher power/god, I’d have to believe:
Negative beliefs work: If you can’t believe you are supported by something more, would you be willing to believe you have a higher self, looking after your best interest? Write the belief you’d like to work towards below:
Word Choice
Instead of this...
>> Using words like: "Need to," "Should," "Must"
>> Using words like: "Have to"
>> Focusing on cost or price
>> Saying you want something
Try this...
>> Instead try "love to" or "will"
>> Instead try "choose to" or "get to"
>> Instead look at the benefits or what you will receive
>> Use the words "I plan to"
Words or phrases that make me feel disempowered:
Words or phrases that make me feel empowered: